Green Speech #31 - We focus on the Faults of Others
When speaking Loshon Hara about another you are usually at that moment focused on the faults of someone else.
The truth is that at that moment it comes out of your mouth you appear smug, haughty and conceited in the eyes of the person you are telling.
When you speak Loshon Hara in a conceited way, a person violates the Torah law of “Be careful less you forget Hashem your God” – Arrogance is the one specific traits which upon all other bad character traits lie.
It is not easy to convey to another how they appear when they are saying something negative about the next guy. If we saw ourselves on tape of how we really speak about others we would be quite surprised.
If we have to pay the game of finding fault let’s focus on ourselves
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